Four seasons of a relationship

Have you ever heard of the four seasons of a relationship? I believe most of you know what it is; perhaps, you have already experienced it before, especially for those who committed in a long-term relationship.

Spring

The transition between winter and summer. It’s broadly refers to the ideas of rebirth or renewal. Once a person started a new relationship, he/she will step into the Spring of a relationship.

When you couple with someone you like, you will have the intention to know more about him/her, don’t you? Springtime is always full of curiosity and most of the people are good at dealing with it. We will always think he/she is better than the previous one. So, our past unhappiness will slowly be gone and revel in rediscovered of the new partner.

Summer

Summertime, it is so called the romance stage. Couple will find that everything is just absolutely amazing. Both of you are still at your best behaviour. Couple are still hiding their bad habits just to show him that, Hey look, I’m so perfect.

Even when you feel like farting or digging your nose while having dinner with the bf, you will just tahannnnn until you reached home or when the bf is not around.

At this stage, your body will keep producing large amount of endorphins which makes you feel unusually happy and excited about everything in your life!! Even when you see a big hot guy/ hot chick right in front of you, you might just think that, Oh, mine is the BEST. Everyone hopes to live in a constant summertime relationship.

Autumn

I believe this happens in some of the long term relationships only; some couples are so lovely and will never get bored of the other half, so, they will be living in a constant summertime.

This happens after the last day of summertime. Relationship grows colder with each passing day. You will most likely begin to pull away from each other at this stage, and as a result, even small annoyances will become big issues. This is the stage when you define unacceptable behaviours.


If both of you are willing to tolerate, listen and solve the problems together, negotiate the landmines together, there is a possibility to reverse back to summertime before you proceed to the winter time.


Winter

At this stage, there is no shame in revealing their dislike for each other. Most of the couple will just give up their relationship at this stage and prepare for the coming Spring time.
Of course there are some cases where couple living in a constant wintertime. Is there a way for couple who have made a habit of ignoring, hurting and attacking each other to regain their long lost JOY? YES!

The best solution is by thinking of all the sweet memories. The way you met him/her, and all the sweet memories happened in between. Feel the love?


But, if both of you are not meant to be together....just let it be.

When September ends.

Yea, end of September. So? It's time to wake up and blog about it. There were so many farewells and stuff. This post consists of everything happened during the whole month. I hope it won't turn out to be a messy post. =)
First of all,

The Girls Night Out


What girls like to do? Gossip. So, basically, the purpose of Girls night out is to update each other about other people. Get it? *ding*. Of course, to catch up with them as well. It's been a while since we had the previous night out.
We had our dinner at Delicious, One Utama.

Beef bolognese

Green tea is my favourite drink because it makes me feel less guilty

 after eating fattening stuff!

Finn & Mabes

Jia Wen - Whey Jinn

Me - Yivonne

Allana - Nicole

Had so much fun chatting with them. Some of them left earlier, the rest T utti Fruity after dinner! I used to hate yogurt because it makes my tongue feels weird. Surprisingly, Tutti Fruity frozen yogurt is so different and..i like it!



Liese Bubble Hair Colour

Dyed my hair with Liese Glossy Brown, wanted to try Sweet Apricot but its not available in Malaysia yet

 :(  The colour turned out  to be quite even. Personally, i think its even better than hair saloon because its way cheaper and the whole process was fun!

Dinner at Yong Ching's

Yong Ching came back from U.S and they decided to have a simple gathering at his place.

Had dinner at the garden

Jeffrey's hat

Su Kheng - Me - Sher Wen

Adrian's Farewell

Had Bbq farewell party at Adrian's place before he left for U.K. Yivonne brought her pet, Reptar, all the while i was just playing the the little thing. He is so photogenic, maybe because its green in colour. haha

Adrian

Picture credit to yivonne

That's all! I'll end my post with a picture of me and Reptar!

..

..

..

..

Tada

Owhh~ So cute right  =)

See ya, Stay tune for the next post. I'll update once a week if possible but not during exams!

From now on, my blog posts will be more on cooking or baking because i'm currently addicted in baking. hehehe

Hey Boy, it's your birthday!

Sorry Guys, another belated post here. 
August 29, 2010 

Celebrated bunny's 19th birthday at Leonardo's Dining Room Wine Loft ,Bangsar.( Click to check out their official website for more info). I've been searching for a nice restaurant quite some time and finally found this restaurant which highly recommended by food bloggers and my aunt as well. It's a non-halal restaurant that serves mostly Western dishes and also some Chinese food. Guess what? They have Bak Kut Teh in their menu which is so random and so weird if you ordered it while having a romantic date with your boyfriend right..haha.

Anyways, i kinda like the decor of the restaurant, its not like a super high class restaurant but the wall with bricks and the dimmed lights just make me feel so comfortable and secure. Although the food are a lil bit pricy, but its so worth it because they are Superlicious especially the dessert. Trust me!

You get to choose where to have your dinner, its either the dining room or the wine loft which located at the top floor. I preferred the dining room because we didn't want to act cool sitting at the wine loft without drinking any wine, hahaha.

They serve bread with Balsamic vinegar & Olive oil before the main course

Here comes the main course.  Pineapple bbq pork ribs for me

Grilled Salmon for the birthday boy

Dessert is the best! That's why its always serve after the dinner. But for me, i don't mind to have it for dinner because i lovee desserts! We ordered a chocolate molten cake that serves with Haagen Dazs vanilla ice cream. My god, it was like a gift from heaven, damn nice, must order!

 Leonardo's Chocolate Volcano

Planned to surprise him with cupcakes and a bunch of his bffs.

Got him cupcakes from +WonderMilk . Hugs & Kisses with chocolate mint flavoured. But too bad, my plan PHAILED because he found out everything. I left my cupcakes at the back seat. Didn't know he will notice it. Sorry, really wanted to surprise you one ok.  hahaha

No photo taken after that because i was busy lighting up the Magic Re-lighting Candles. It was fun to see him blowing the candles until the face turned red! Anyways, hope he enjoyed the dinner and everything i've done for him on his birthday. Big boy must behave like an adult because you're officially 19 now ok? :D Love you.

September's post coming up next. Stay Tune!

The fun of travel is the esthetic of lostness!

A Super Belated Post. It's almost the end of my holidays, yet I'm still blogging about something happened two months ago. Working life sucks.

I have finally done with my finals and i had two months holidays! For sure, I RESERVED first week of my holidays for the bunny whereas the second week mummy planned to visit her brother in Hong Kong and also the sister in Shen Zhen, both of them actually running some businesses there.

It was quite fun but there were too many things to share. So, i'm just gonna chap all the photos in my post. =)

Pineapple bun with cha xiu fillings

Wing Lok Street nearby uncle's house.

                                                                     Their muffins are so gooddd

Standard of living in Hong Kong is sooo high and it's not easy to get a house, not even a small tiny appartment. The rental are so expensive which costs you like..Rm 10K per month! But they have very effective public transport, as long as you have this

..

..

Multipurpose Octopus Card!

Whereas for Shen Zhen, its totally different as Hong Kong. Everything is soo freaking cheap until you would offer to pay more for it. But the people are so rude, spitting salivas everywhere in the public, or put a newspaper on the floor and let their kids to shit at the middle of the walkway. Perhaps, that's their culture. I can't believe people are still doing this, but at least they still know they should put a newspaper there, otherwise blur sotong people like me might just step on it. hahhaha.

Ohya, there are a lot of Lesbos there too. They will be like touching each other in the subway and the tomboy who acts as the Guy is always shorter than the Girl. LOL

Pancake hot dog

Cod fillet burger

You will never get to try this in Malaysia, awesome Pork Burger!

After all, my favourite is

..

..

CUSTARD PAU!

Hmm.. I think their country is seriously overpopulated. Every single street was so crowded, we were walking shoulder to shoulder with people all the time. So, i prefer to walk peacefully at night.

Had fun shopping and eating. Love the food, but not the people and their culture. I'm currently trying to save money to invest in my travel fund because travelling is fun. I would prefer countries like Japan or Europe countries. Hopefully, I'll be blogging about my next trip soon!

Nothing's gonna change my ♥ for you: Our Anniversary

Well well, time flies and the boyfriend and I have been together for a year! He brightened my life and I realised that a person seriously will become more mature once they are committed in a stable relationship. I used to think that guys are not trustable, guess i have influenced by bad things happened to the people around me. However, from all the things he has done for me made me to place my trust on him. I believe  that he is the only exception.

We celebrated our one year anniversary on 24th July 2010, one day before i left for Hong Kong. He brought me to Tenji for our anniversary dinner. Seems like our minds are connected, i planned to bring him there on his birthday too. Great, now i have to think of another nice place to celebrate his birthday!  Any recommendation? =)

Hub picked me up around 8pm and surprised me with roses and awesome cupcakes. When he confessed to me one year ago, he used a bouquet of White Roses too.

 

24th July 2009

And another one for our anniversary one year later , so sweeet~

24th July 2010

Other than that, he ordered cupcakes which he spent around one week to look for the shop. They were really really nice, can't find a single word to describe my feeling at that time. I have to say, you are the only one that will put such a lot of efforts in every single thing you do!

Cupcakes!

He was reading the card i gave him.

My words are too small i guess, LOL

Mr. Cold Cucumber

Again, i spent most of the time eating dessert. hehe

That night was a fairy tale, I'm not exaggerating, i bet you will feel the same way too when you found your prince one day.=D For me, happy moment does not required much things, as long as the one i love is right next to me. Even if we just sitting there and share our stories together, it can be the happiest moment ever, right?

The sad thing was we only get to see each other for few hours because i left for Hong Kong at 5am. One week in Hong Kong & China without him was so EMPTY, =( But at least i get to spend some time with my mummy, she's one of the VIP in my life too!

Anyways, having you as my life partner is so lucky! Hope we can celebrate every anniversary together, our 50th anniversary, 60th anniversary, 70th anniversary* if we still alive*. I will still be with you and never get bored of you no matter what until the end of my life, will you? Love You.

Happy Anniversary my love *hugs*